So she might be pregnant.

What does that mean to you?

You have options.


  1. Stay calm. Right now, you have the responsibility to help her make an informed decision. Nobody, not her friends or parents, can have more influence on her decision than you.
  2. Listen. It’s a very important decision and one you need to make together. Let her know she is not alone.
  3. Talk honestly. It’s normal to be mad, frustrated or worried. Hiding your feelings only increases stress.
  4. Gather facts. You have options. Be informed.


  1. Don’t bail. The more you deny what happened the harder it gets. It won’t just go away.
  2. Don’t pressure her. Forcing a decision will only cause regret.
  3. Don’t forget. You are very important. Be there, be open and be honest.