Pregnancy Resources of Abilene

Parenting

Parenting is one of the most dramatic and rewarding changes in a woman’s life. Now that you are pregnant, you are already a mommy. This doesn’t mean your life is over. You still can achieve the goals you have set for yourself. It will just look different than you thought. Not worse, just different. Yes, it will be challenging but also very fulfilling.

Adoption

If you are not ready to be a parent, you can still give your baby the gift of life by choosing adoption. You can plan for your baby’s future by selecting a stable, loving family to care for your baby. After birth, you can see your baby, name your baby, and spend time with your baby. If you so choose, you may be able to get updates on your child’s progress or have ongoing visits throughout your child’s life while you continue your education or career goals. Finally, you can be proud that you chose life for your baby. Adoption is the most unselfish thing a mother could do for her child!

(part taken from “10 Questions Most Birthmothers Ask About Adoption” 2003 Bethany Christian Services)

Abortion

Abortion is not just a simple medical procedure. For many women, it is a life changing event with significant physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences. Most women who struggle with past abortions say that they wish they had been told all of the facts about abortion.

Remember, no person will be required to live with the consequences of this decision as much as you will. If someone is pressuring you to make such a decision, explain your needs and try to involve them in counseling to explore your positive options. You have the right to continue with this pregnancy.

You may see this unplanned pregnancy as a major road block in your life. Thankfully, there are other roads to get you back on track! Be encouraged to know that you are not alone and many women in your situation found the necessary help to make positive choices and realize their dreams.

(part taken from “Before You Decide” 2003 Care Net)